We help couples identify and eliminate the root causes of division, strife, and discontentment in their marriage. We equip them with Biblical principles to improve their relationship skills and develop a renewed vision for a thriving marriage.
If you are experiencing some challenges in your marriage, don't despair. You can have a thriving marriage through discovering & fulfilling God's purpose and potential for your union. Our Breakthrough Coaching is our most intensive program for couples looking for a transformation.
This coaching program is for you if you...
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are struggling with poor communication habits that lead to misunderstandings and frustration,
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are tired of the constant fight cycles and conflict
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can't seem to find peace and resolution,
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harbor anger or resentment toward your spouse,
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feel incompatible and divided, unable to align your goals and values,
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sense your marriage is drifting apart and you're not on the same page,
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want to get to the root causes of your marital issues and find lasting solutions,
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desire a marriage that reflects God's plan and vision for your future together,
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need effective strategies to rebuild trust and unity in your relationship,
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have tried to fix it on your own, but nothing seems to work,
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want to learn how to grow together and be intentional about change,
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want biblically based tools and resources to strengthen your marriage
Couples all over the world face these challenges, feeling lost and disconnected.
Don't despair, there's hope. God has a plan for you!
Rediscover an atmosphere of
Joy & Peace
You started this journey together. Learn healthy relationship skills. Discover how to love your spouse the way God intended.
Feel Like Soulmates Again
Reconnect and get back on the same team again. Go from feeling like roommates back to feeling like soulmates doing life together. God had a plan for you.
Cultivate Oneness
Learn to express your feelings and needs effectively, fostering a deeper connection with your partner. By improving communication, you'll experience a deeper level of unity, intimacy and understanding.
Why Other Methods Fail:
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Lack of Spiritual Foundation: Most methods ignore the spiritual aspect of marriage, which is essential for true transformation and unity.
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Absence of Biblical Principles: Without grounding in biblical principles, these methods fail to address the heart issues and root causes of marital strife.
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Short-term Fixes: These methods provide short-term fixes rather than long-term, God-centered solutions, leading to repeated cycles of conflict and dissatisfaction.
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Focus on Individualism: Many approaches prioritize individual happiness and self-fulfillment over the health and unity of the marriage. This can foster a sense of isolation and competition rather than partnership and cooperation.
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Behavioral Band-Aids: They often focus on surface-level behavioral changes without addressing the deeper, underlying spiritual and emotional issues that cause conflict and division.
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Ignoring God's Role: Too many "solutions" rarely, if ever, incorporate prayer, scripture, or reliance on God's guidance, missing out on the profound wisdom and support that faith provides.
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Cultural Conformity: Other solutions conform to societal norms and pressures, which can be at odds with the values and principles of a Christ-centered marriage.
Our Approach:
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God's Design: Our Marriage Breakthrough Coaching is founded on biblical principles that provide a solid foundation for lasting transformation.
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Root Cause Resolution: We help couples identify and address the root causes of their issues, aligning their relationship with God's plan.
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Lasting Solutions: By applying biblical principles, we offer long-term solutions that foster genuine unity, trust, and mutual growth.
Our approach goes beyond surface-level fixes and temporary compromises. We guide couples to discover God's vision for their marriage, helping them build a strong, loving relationship that stands the test of time.
Experience the Difference:
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Transform Your Marriage: Move from conflict and division to harmony and unity.
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Discover God's Plan: Align your marriage with God's vision and purpose.
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Grow Together: Learn how to grow and improve together over time, building a strong, God-centered relationship.
Don't settle for advice that exclude the Word of God. It doesn’t work. Embrace the transformative power of God's design for marriage and experience the breakthrough you've been longing for.
"When purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable."
-Dr. Myles Monroe
There a fundamental truth about the nature of purpose and function. When we do not fully understand the purpose of something, we are prone to misuse or misinterpret its intended function, leading to inevitable dysfunction and failure to realize its full potential.
Understanding Purpose: Purpose provides the blueprint for the intended use and potential of anything—be it an object, a relationship, or a life. Knowing the purpose ensures that we use it correctly, maximizing its value and effectiveness. Without this understanding, we are likely to misapply or misuse it, leading to adverse outcomes.
Application to Marriage: In the context of marriage, not knowing or understanding the divine purpose of marriage, and more specifically... YOUR MARRIAGE, can lead to mismanagement and conflict. When couples are unaware of the true purpose of their union, they may fall into patterns of behavior that harm the relationship rather than nurture it. This could manifest as poor communication, unresolved conflict, or even infidelity.
Living Up to Potential: A marriage grounded in an understanding of its purpose, reflects how God's intends to express HIS love to the world THROUGH YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE. Your relationship is designed to provide companionship, foster mutual growth, and thrive to reach its full potential. Without this foundation, the relationship may suffer from neglect, misunderstanding, and a lack of direction.
Avoiding Dysfunction: Understanding the purpose of marriage helps couples align their actions and expectations with God's design, thereby avoiding the dysfunction of the relationship. This alignment fosters respect, love, and growth, ensuring that the marriage is not only functional but flourishing.
Understanding purpose is not just a good idea, but it is essential. In marriage, knowing and embracing its divine purpose can prevent misuse and enable couples to experience the true potential of their relationship. When purpose is clear, couples can build a strong, loving, and resilient marriage that fulfills God's vision for their lives together.
We will show you how to have a healthy relationship that will take your marriage to the next level while preparing you to thrive on that level!
Let's take a closer look at the breakthrough topics that we'll cover...
Marriage Breakthrough Bootcamp
Discerning and Defeating the
Attacks on Your Marriage
"Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes." -Ephesians 6:11
In every marriage, there are unseen forces and patterns that can cause conflict, division, and strife. These spiritual attacks often go unrecognized, leading to unnecessary pain and misunderstandings.
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Attributing the source of problems to your spouse rather than the real enemy that wants to destroy your relationship.
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Ignoring the subtle signs of spiritual attacks, allowing them to fester and grow.
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Failing to fortify your marriage against these attacks, leading to repeated cycles of conflict.
The BREAKTHROUGH...
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Develop a deeper awareness of the true source of conflict.
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Strengthen your marriage's defenses, creating a resilient partnership.
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Experience victory over persistent issues, fostering a harmonious and unified relationship.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze the spiritual attacks on your marriage and understand their origins.
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Evaluate effective strategies to withstand and combat these attacks.
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Create a personalized plan to fortify your marriage and emerge victorious.
Healthy communication is essential for a thriving marriage. By addressing and eliminating destructive habits, you can cultivate a deeper connection and understanding with your spouse, ensuring that your relationship remains strong and resilient. Just as maintaining healthy blood pressure is vital for physical health, fostering healthy communication is crucial for the health of your marriage. Embrace these principles today to enhance the lifeblood of your relationship.
Communication – The Lifeblood of Your Relationship
"Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs." -Ephesians 4:29
Eliminate destructive communication habits. Communication is the lifeblood of a marriage. Just as blood pressure affects physical health, the quality of your communication determines the health of your relationship. Poor communication habits can be as damaging as high blood pressure, leading to tension and disconnection.
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Resorting to yelling, silence, or dismissiveness during disagreements.
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Failing to listen actively and empathetically to your spouse.
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Using harsh or critical language that undermines trust and intimacy.
The BREAKTHROUGH...
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Develop a deeper awareness of the true source of conflict.
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Strengthen your marriage's defenses, creating a resilient partnership.
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Experience victory over persistent issues, fostering a harmonious and unified relationship.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze the spiritual attacks on your marriage and understand their origins.
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Evaluate effective strategies to withstand and combat these attacks.
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Create a personalized plan to fortify your marriage and emerge victorious.
Understanding the spiritual dimension of your marriage helps you address the root causes of conflict and fortify your relationship against future attacks. Embrace the biblical principles and tools provided today to build a strong, resilient marriage that aligns with God's plan.
Conflict- Getting Rid of the Toxins
"If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." -Romans 12:18
Eliminate constant strife & contention. Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship, but how you handle it can make all the difference. Strife and contention drain emotional energy and create a toxic environment, making it essential to learn how to manage conflicts effectively.
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Allowing conflicts to escalate without intervening.
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Avoiding conflict altogether, leading to unresolved issues.
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Using hurtful words or actions during disagreements.
The BREAKTHROUGH...
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Reduce the emotional toll of arguments and disagreements.
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Foster a harmonious and supportive home environment.
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Strengthen your relationship through understanding and cooperation.
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De-escalate conflicts through peaceful resolution.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze the sources of conflict in your marriage and understand their root causes.
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Implement effective de-escalation techniques to manage and resolve conflicts.
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Resolve conflicts in a way that fosters peace and joy in your relationship.
Healthy communication is essential for a thriving marriage. By addressing and eliminating destructive habits, you can cultivate a deeper connection and understanding with your spouse, ensuring that your relationship remains strong and resilient. Just as maintaining healthy blood pressure is vital for physical health, fostering healthy communication is crucial for the health of your marriage. Embrace these principles today to enhance the lifeblood of your relationship.
From Divided to United: Overcoming Incompatibility
"The Lord God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." -Genesis 2:18
Incompatibility is often a misconception. Couples begin to feel incompatible when they struggle to get back on the same page and view their differences as weaknesses rather than strengths. Understanding that God designed spouses to complement each other can transform your relationship.
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Believing that differences mean you are not compatible.
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Viewing differences as obstacles rather than opportunities.
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Failing to see how complementary strengths can enhance your relationship.
The BREAKTHROUGH...
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Recognize that your differences can actually strengthen your marriage.
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Understand that God designed you to complement each other, where one is weak, the other is strong.
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Learn to value and appreciate your spouse’s unique qualities, creating a stronger and more united partnership.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze & examine the root cause of division and the belief of incompatibility.
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Understand why “incompatibility” may be a misconception in your relationship.
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Evaluate how your strengths and weaknesses complement each other.
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Understand and value your differences, fostering unity and strength.
By changing your perspective and embracing your differences, you can strengthen your marriage and create a more united partnership. Recognize that God designed you to complement each other, and use this understanding to build a resilient and harmonious relationship. Embrace these principles to see your differences as strengths, not obstacles, and work together to become one.
Becoming One: Cultivating Unity in Your Marriage
"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor.” -Ecclesiastes 4:9
Marriage is an ongoing journey of two distinct individuals coming together to form a unified family. Building on the lesson of overcoming the misconception of incompatibility, this session delves deeper into the process of becoming one. It requires continuous effort and intentionality to truly understand and meet each other's needs.
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Believing that unity happens automatically without effort.
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Assuming that your spouse's needs and feelings remain constant over time.
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Neglecting the importance of regularly expressing love and respect in ways that resonate with your spouse.
The BREAKTHROUGH...
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Strengthen your bond and deepen your connection.
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Prevent feelings of neglect and misunderstanding.
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Foster a harmonious and unified family, where both partners feel valued and appreciated.
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Be intentional about learning and responding to what makes your spouse feel loved and respected.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze the unique ways your spouse feels loved and respected versus unloved and disrespected.
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Recognize the importance of intentionality in continually learning about and responding to your spouse’s needs.
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Express love and respect in meaningful ways, enhancing unity and intimacy.
Becoming one is an ongoing, intentional process that requires understanding and responding to each other’s needs. By focusing on what makes your spouse feel loved and respected, you can build a strong, unified marriage. Embrace the principles of intentionality and continuous learning to deepen your connection and create a family where both partners thrive.
The Power of One:
Transforming Your Marriage Through
PERSONAL Growth
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” -Galatians 5:22-23
Every action, habit, and behavior you bring into your marriage has the power to either build up or break down your relationship. Understanding the impact of your individual behaviors is crucial for creating a positive and thriving marriage. By developing key Social and Emotional Learning (SEL) skills, you can ensure that your actions consistently contribute to a healthy and supportive partnership.
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Ignoring the impact of your individual behaviors on the relationship.
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Lacking self-awareness and failing to manage emotions effectively.
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Playing the “Blame Game.”
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Placing too much focus on external circumstances.
The BREAKTHROUGH...
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Gain greater self-awareness and control over your emotions, reducing conflicts.
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Improve your ability to understand and empathize with your spouse, fostering a deeper connection.
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Enhance your decision-making skills, leading to healthier and more responsible relationship choices.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze destructive relationship habits and their effects on your marriage.
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Evaluate the importance of developing the skills necessary to build a strong relationship foundation.
Developing strong relationship skills is foundational for a healthy and thriving marriage. You can transform your individual behaviors and positively impact your relationship. Embrace these principles to build a resilient and loving marriage, grounded in mutual understanding and effective communication.
God's Blueprint:
Discovering a Purpose & Vision for Your Marriage
"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." -Jeremiah 29:11
A marriage without a shared purpose and vision can feel directionless and divided. Understanding and embracing God's plan for your marriage is crucial for creating unity and a sense of purpose. Without vision, people lose direction and begin to wander aimlessly. God joined you together for a purpose and wants you to have a clear vision of the journey ahead.
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Lacking a shared vision or goals, leading to confusion and misalignment.
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Ignoring God’s plan and trying to navigate marriage based on personal desires alone.
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Allowing division and lack of direction to create distance between partners.
The BREAKTHROUGH...
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Clarify a shared vision that guides your relationship and decision-making.
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Unite with your spouse around common goals and a divine purpose.
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Experience a deeper sense of direction, fulfillment, and resilience in your marriage.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze the importance of vision and purpose in a marriage.
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Evaluate how God’s plan can bring unity and direction to your relationship.
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Create a shared vision and purpose plan that aligns with God’s intentions for your marriage.
Get Back on Track With What God Has in Store for You & Your Spouse
Are you ready to remove barriers and transform your marriage? Our program is meticulously designed to empower you with the tools and strategies needed to establish a profound connection with your spouse based on biblical principles. Every lesson & coaching session will bring you a step closer to the joyous relationship you've always desired, where you and your spouse can truly feel as if you are one.
Transform Your Marriage Today!
This course isn't just about learning; it's about transforming. It's about taking proactive steps towards a marriage where every conversation brings you closer, every interaction is a step towards deeper unity, and joy is a constant companion in your journey together.
Don't wait! Start your transformative journey today and unlock the joyful communion you and your spouse deserve. Enroll in our coaching program now, and start building a future rooted and grounded in love... God's idea of love.
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"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope." -Jeremiah 29:11
