We help couples establish and develop the key essentials to build their marriage on a rock-solid foundation. We equip them with Biblical principles to develop a vision for a thriving marriage and cultivate oneness in their marriage.
If you are married/ soon to be married, don't despair. You can have a thriving marriage through discovering & fulfilling God's purpose and potential for your union.
This coaching program is for you if you want to avoid the many devastating challenges that married couples face...
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struggling with poor communication habits that lead to misunderstandings and frustration,
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constant fight cycles and conflict
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harboring anger or resentment toward your spouse,
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feeling incompatible and divided, unable to align your goals and values,
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drifting apart because you're not on the same page,
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allowing the root causes of your marital issues to keep you from finding lasting solutions,
Couples all over the world face these challenges, feeling lost and disconnected.
Don't despair, there's hope!
You will learn how to...
- grow together to create a marriage that reflects God's plan and vision for your future together,
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build trust and unity in your relationship,
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face difficult situations and move forward together by solving problems through biblical wisdom
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apply the tools and resources needed to strengthen your marriage
God has a plan for you!
Establish an atmosphere of
Joy & Peace
You started this journey together. Learn healthy relationship skills. Discover how to love your spouse the way God intended.
Keep the Feeling of Passion Alive
Stay connected through a bond like none other. You are on the same team again. Never get to a point where you just feel like roommates.
Cultivate Oneness
Learn to express your feelings and needs effectively, fostering a deeper connection with your partner. By improving communication, you'll experience a deeper level of unity, intimacy and understanding.
Why Other Methods Fail:
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Lack of Spiritual Foundation: Most methods ignore the spiritual aspect of marriage, which is essential for true transformation and unity.
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Absence of Biblical Principles: Without grounding in biblical principles, these methods fail to address the heart issues and root causes of marital strife.
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Short-term Fixes: These methods provide short-term fixes rather than long-term, God-centered solutions, leading to repeated cycles of conflict and dissatisfaction.
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Focus on Individualism: Many approaches prioritize individual happiness and self-fulfillment over the health and unity of the marriage. This can foster a sense of isolation and competition rather than partnership and cooperation.
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Behavioral Band-Aids: They often focus on surface-level behavioral changes without addressing the deeper, underlying spiritual and emotional issues that cause conflict and division.
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Ignoring God's Role: Too many "solutions" rarely, if ever, incorporate prayer, scripture, or reliance on God's guidance, missing out on the profound wisdom and support that faith provides.
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Cultural Conformity: Other solutions conform to societal norms and pressures, which can be at odds with the values and principles of a Christ-centered marriage.
Our Approach:
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God's Design: Our Marriage Breakthrough Coaching is founded on biblical principles that provide a solid foundation for lasting transformation.
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Root Cause Resolution: We help couples identify and address the root causes of their issues, aligning their relationship with God's plan.
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Lasting Solutions: By applying biblical principles, we offer long-term solutions that foster genuine unity, trust, and mutual growth.
Our approach goes beyond surface-level fixes and temporary compromises. We guide couples to discover God's vision for their marriage, helping them build a strong, loving relationship that stands the test of time.
Experience the Difference:
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Transform Your Marriage: Move from conflict and division to harmony and unity.
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Discover God's Plan: Align your marriage with God's vision and purpose.
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Grow Together: Learn how to grow and improve together over time, building a strong, God-centered relationship.
Don't settle for advice that exclude the Word of God. It doesn’t work. Embrace the transformative power of God's design for marriage and experience the breakthrough you've been longing for.
We will show you how to have a healthy relationship that will take your marriage to the next level while preparing you to thrive on that level!
Let's take a closer look at the topics that we'll cover...
Firm Foundation Bootcamp
Discerning and Defeating the
Attacks on Your Marriage
"Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes." -Ephesians 6:11
In every marriage, there are unseen forces and patterns that can cause conflict, division, and strife. These spiritual attacks often go unrecognized, leading to unnecessary pain and misunderstandings.
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Attributing the source of problems to your spouse rather than the real enemy that wants to destroy your relationship.
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Ignoring the subtle signs of spiritual attacks, allowing them to fester and grow.
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Failing to fortify your marriage against these attacks, leading to repeated cycles of conflict.
The Foundational Principal...
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Develop a deeper awareness of the true source of conflict.
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Strengthen your marriage's defenses, creating a resilient partnership.
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Experience victory over persistent issues, fostering a harmonious and unified relationship.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze the spiritual attacks on your marriage and understand their origins.
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Evaluate effective strategies to withstand and combat these attacks.
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Create a personalized plan to fortify your marriage and emerge victorious.
Healthy communication is essential for a thriving marriage. By addressing and eliminating destructive habits, you can cultivate a deeper connection and understanding with your spouse, ensuring that your relationship remains strong and resilient. Just as maintaining healthy blood pressure is vital for physical health, fostering healthy communication is crucial for the health of your marriage. Embrace these principles today to enhance the lifeblood of your relationship.
Communication – The Lifeblood of Your Relationship
"Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs." -Ephesians 4:29
Eliminate destructive communication habits. Communication is the lifeblood of a marriage. Just as blood pressure affects physical health, the quality of your communication determines the health of your relationship. Poor communication habits can be as damaging as high blood pressure, leading to tension and disconnection.
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Resorting to yelling, silence, or dismissiveness during disagreements.
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Failing to listen actively and empathetically to your spouse.
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Using harsh or critical language that undermines trust and intimacy.
The Foundational Principal...
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Develop a deeper awareness of the true source of conflict.
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Strengthen your marriage's defenses, creating a resilient partnership.
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Experience victory over persistent issues, fostering a harmonious and unified relationship.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze the spiritual attacks on your marriage and understand their origins.
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Evaluate effective strategies to withstand and combat these attacks.
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Create a personalized plan to fortify your marriage and emerge victorious.
Understanding the spiritual dimension of your marriage helps you address the root causes of conflict and fortify your relationship against future attacks. Embrace the biblical principles and tools provided today to build a strong, resilient marriage that aligns with God's plan.
Becoming One: Cultivating Unity in Your Marriage
"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor.” -Ecclesiastes 4:9
Marriage is an ongoing journey of two distinct individuals coming together to form a unified family. Building on the lesson of overcoming the misconception of incompatibility, this session delves deeper into the process of becoming one. It requires continuous effort and intentionality to truly understand and meet each other's needs.
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Believing that unity happens automatically without effort.
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Assuming that your spouse's needs and feelings remain constant over time.
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Neglecting the importance of regularly expressing love and respect in ways that resonate with your spouse.
The Foundational Principal...
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Strengthen your bond and deepen your connection.
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Prevent feelings of neglect and misunderstanding.
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Foster a harmonious and unified family, where both partners feel valued and appreciated.
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Be intentional about learning and responding to what makes your spouse feel loved and respected.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze the unique ways your spouse feels loved and respected versus unloved and disrespected.
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Recognize the importance of intentionality in continually learning about and responding to your spouse’s needs.
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Express love and respect in meaningful ways, enhancing unity and intimacy.
Becoming one is an ongoing, intentional process that requires understanding and responding to each other’s needs. By focusing on what makes your spouse feel loved and respected, you can build a strong, unified marriage. Embrace the principles of intentionality and continuous learning to deepen your connection and create a family where both partners thrive.
The Power of One:
Transforming Your Marriage Through
PERSONAL Growth
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” -Galatians 5:22-23
Every action, habit, and behavior you bring into your marriage has the power to either build up or break down your relationship. Understanding the impact of your individual behaviors is crucial for creating a positive and thriving marriage. By developing key Social and Emotional Learning (SEL) skills, you can ensure that your actions consistently contribute to a healthy and supportive partnership.
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Ignoring the impact of your individual behaviors on the relationship.
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Lacking self-awareness and failing to manage emotions effectively.
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Playing the “Blame Game.”
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Placing too much focus on external circumstances.
The Foundational Principal...
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Gain greater self-awareness and control over your emotions, reducing conflicts.
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Improve your ability to understand and empathize with your spouse, fostering a deeper connection.
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Enhance your decision-making skills, leading to healthier and more responsible relationship choices.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze destructive relationship habits and their effects on your marriage.
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Evaluate the importance of developing the skills necessary to build a strong relationship foundation.
Developing strong relationship skills is foundational for a healthy and thriving marriage. You can transform your individual behaviors and positively impact your relationship. Embrace these principles to build a resilient and loving marriage, grounded in mutual understanding and effective communication.
God's Blueprint:
Discovering a Purpose & Vision for Your Marriage
"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." -Jeremiah 29:11
A marriage without a shared purpose and vision can feel directionless and divided. Understanding and embracing God's plan for your marriage is crucial for creating unity and a sense of purpose. Without vision, people lose direction and begin to wander aimlessly. God joined you together for a purpose and wants you to have a clear vision of the journey ahead.
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Lacking a shared vision or goals, leading to confusion and misalignment.
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Ignoring God’s plan and trying to navigate marriage based on personal desires alone.
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Allowing division and lack of direction to create distance between partners.
The Foundational Principal...
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Clarify a shared vision that guides your relationship and decision-making.
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Unite with your spouse around common goals and a divine purpose.
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Experience a deeper sense of direction, fulfillment, and resilience in your marriage.
What you'll learn...
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Analyze the importance of vision and purpose in a marriage.
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Evaluate how God’s plan can bring unity and direction to your relationship.
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Create a shared vision and purpose plan that aligns with God’s intentions for your marriage.
Why This Works...
God gave us a roadmap to success. His Word provides the instructions that we need for the best way to live!
"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope." -Jeremiah 29:11
